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THE PARENT’S GUIDE

TO CHILDREN’S BEHAVIOUr

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Parents guide for child behaviour
Parents guide for child behaviour

Still stuck in the cycle of tantrums, shouting, or feeling like nothing's working? You’re not alone - and you’re not failing.


The Parent’s Guide to Children’s Behaviour was created to help you turn things around with understanding, not punishment.

It’s a fresh, holistic approach based on 40+ years of real experience - packed with simple tools, insights, and strategies that actually work in everyday family life.

You’ll learn how to respond to your child’s behaviour with calm and connection, so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start feeling more connected at home.

Parenting isn’t meant to be perfect. But it can feel a whole lot better - and we’re here to help you get there.

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Here’s What parents and professionals Are Saying

  • "I thought it might work, but I never thought it would be instant!"

    Jenny from Surrey

  • "Ruth delivered the course to an exceptional standard. It was very informative, and the material was well presented.”

    Family Support Worker, Birmingham Primary School

  • "An excellent framework that guides your positive nature to fuel your family development. The skills I have learned will last us a lifetime."

    John from Lichfield

  • "3 Days well spent, Ruth was knowledgeable and informative. She allowed the group to learn through shared experiences. The course is clear and easy to use. Although structured, there is room for flexibility."

    Family Support Lead - Birmingham Pupil Referral Unit

  • "This is the start of a lifelong journey for all our family. I have told so many people about what I've been learning and how much I've actually enjoyed it.”

    Kim from Surrey

  • "A fantastic short course. I found the conversations invaluable. Ruth delivered the course very well, and the personal stories made it very interesting. Thank you, Ruth.”

    Oasis Academy

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We’re a mother-and-son team based in Stafford, England, on a mission to help families feel happier, more connected, and more in control - without guilt, shouting, or shame.

At Child Behaviour Direct, we work with families around the world to look beneath the surface of challenging behaviour, understand why it’s happening, and create lasting change - at home or in your workplace.

If you’ve found your way here, chances are something isn’t sitting right. That’s not just normal - it’s a sign you’re ready for something better. And we’re here to help you get there.

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Happy Family Mealtimes

Struggling with mealtime battles, fussy eating, or children who won’t sit at the table? This practical guide shares proven tips to reduce stress and create a calm, happy family mealtime routine in your home, without bribes or power struggles.

The Toxic Damage of Gaslighting Children

Do you feel like your relationship with your child is strained, that something’s off, and you’re not as close as you’d like to be? Maybe they seem distant, unsure of themselves, or quick to shut down. The word gaslighting gets used a lot, but what does it mean in parenting, and could it be part of what’s getting in the way?

How to Handle Sibling Rivalry

Tired of constant arguments or jealous outbursts between your children? Whether they’re little or nearly grown, sibling rivalry can drain the joy from family life.

This post offers gentle, practical ways to bring more peace (and less conflict) into your home.

WHY Children’s Behaviour Often Isn’t the Problem

Challenging behaviour isn’t always what it seems.
Often, it’s a signal — not the problem itself.

In this post, we explore one of the most overlooked reasons behind what children are really trying to tell us.