END POWER STRUGGLES AND ANGRY OUTBURSTS

USING EFFECTIVE QUESTIONS

As a parent, we all want to get along with our children, but let's face it, it can be challenging. Finding the right thing to say can be hard when emotions are high and we feel overwhelmed or frustrated. If this sounds like you, know that you're not alone. 

Working with parents struggling with their 10-year-old son's angry outbursts, they found themselves in power struggles and arguing frequently and didn't know what to do to fix the situation. However, during a coaching session, they discovered that they were overly critical of their son, triggering his outbursts and creating a disconnect between them.

To turn things around, they started asking questions instead of being critical, which was pivotal to transforming their son's behaviour.

By asking questions, they could better understand their son's perspective, which helped to calm his angry outbursts and create a better connection between them.

So, if you're feeling overwhelmed or frustrated with arguments and battles, remember that asking questions can be a powerful tool. It can help calm their emotions and create a stronger connection between you both. 

When raising children it's essential to find ways to encourage them to become better critical thinkers. Asking questions is a great way to do just that. This approach can help children develop their ideas and opinions and build confidence in their abilities. But it's not just about improving critical thinking skills. Asking questions can also help build stronger relationships between you and your children. When children feel heard and understood, it can lead to a deeper connection and understanding of each other.

Asking questions also boosts children's self-esteem and confidence, essential for developing a positive self-image and a can-do attitude. This can serve them well as they grow up and face new challenges.

Asking questions encourages children to think creatively and come up with solutions to problems, which is a great way to help them become more resilient and better equipped to handle challenges.

Perhaps the most important benefit of asking questions is that it shows your children you value and respect their thoughts and opinions. When children feel heard and respected, they're more likely to open up to you and share their feelings. This can lead to better relationships with you and others in their lives, too.

So, if you're looking for a way to improve your relationship with your children and stop angry outbursts and arguments, try asking questions instead of being critical. You'll be amazed at the difference it can make.

RAISE YOUR WORDS - NOT YOUR VOICE

By using questions along with other vital strategies in the Parent’s Guide to Children’s Behaviour, you can transform your parenting experience and help you build stronger connections with them. Taking a more positive and collaborative approach can encourage cooperation and significantly reduce the families' stress. 

So why not give it a try? You might be surprised at the positive impact it can have on your family's dynamic.

Thanks for reading,

Ruth